it is so a long time i lift that i can hardly remember when i left my steps here last time. is it annoy somebody?well,i have to say,i have not been in mood on this for a long time,untill now.

what happend arround me make a window on my mind. there are only 2 situations for two lovers become friends after their breakups .firstly,they have not fall in love truly.the other is at lest one of them were giving and hurting whishtly . so most of pre-lovers never face each other genuinly because they are not "great" enough . so if you fell you don't love yuor persuiter after you have tried to do it, you'better tell her(or him)what you fell and never do stupid things like try to keep your friendship, just give this trouble thing to God. It's better hurt someone temporarily and even lost your friendship than hurt an inocent person with the fellling "involved but can't treap" deeply for a long time.

if you don't understand this or can't accept it . It is also all right. No matter what happend. It is not your mistake, you are inncent too. everyone involved had do nothing wrong . it'is the mistake of God, it is the mistake of the most mysterious theory in the word -------love.

 before we make an end, do not forget there is another thing can be the solution of this problem. the uniqe thing,the most powerful thing in the world, the unique eternal thing in the word -----time.it can change every thing undoughtly.